Welcome to the Happiness In Heels blog! I wanted to take this opportunity to introduce myself, Sarah Michelle, and let you know what you can expect from this blog.
I love talking about sex and that can make some people uncomfortable, so heads up! I'm not always politically correct, and I definitely cuss. Now that we have that out of the way, I'd like to share two things.
First, I have been coaching since 2015. I started as a business coach, because I had run a successful massage therapy practice myself for about 4 years at that point. So it felt like a natural choice to coach on business. But what I found was that it wasn't super fun, and there were a ton of people already doing it. Plus, the clients I did have all wanted to talk about sex.
Sex came up so often when I was helping these women with their businesses because sexual and creative energy both come from the second chakra. So, whatever showing up in your sex life is also showing up in your business... it's also showing up in your finances. So it's showing up all over in your life.
I don't know about you, but I think that it's way more fun to realize that I have a challenge in my business and then be able to go back to the bedroom, play, work it out there, and move through it. This sounds like more fun than to have to say an affirmation 100 times.
Many of us grow up in an environment that encourages masculine energy, and it's not even always healthy masculine energy. I would say the majority of us have experienced toxic masculinity in a lot of ways. So what happens is we grow up being told that logic is more important than intuition, that we need to be doing stuff to prove our worth and have value instead of being. We're also taught that we should stay in control because that's how we protect ourselves. If we can stay in control and protect ourselves, then we can make sure that what we want happens.
But what happens is if you're someone whose natural state of being is in her feminine essence. In your feminine is where you rest, recuperate, and rejuvenate. That's where your spirit comes alive.
If you're always in your masculine you're depleting your energy. And the result is burnout.
How many of us know a business owner, a mom, or a career woman... someone who's just like, "Oh my god! I can't do this anymore!" The life has drained out of her face because she's just going through the motions. She's trying to figure out how to survive.
"How do I make enough money? How do I get to dinner on the table for the kids? How do I make sure that my husband doesn't cheat on me because, you know what? I'm so burned out I don't even want to frickin' have sex anymore! But I fear that if I don't have sex with my husband, then he's going to go somewhere else to get sex."
All of this stuff is going through her mind all the time. It just zaps the life out of her. It also takes her creative Life Force energy from her, so she can't get to a place of thriving. She can't get to a place of creativity, magnetism, and attraction in her business or in her life. She can't get to a place where she really enjoys having sex with her spouse.
Maybe she can get to a place where she's like, "Okay, we haven't had sex in a week. Let's go bang one out." She has a clitoral orgasm, and it's done 5 minutes later. Everybody's satisfied.
But is that what you want? Do you want a satisfying sex life? Do you want a satisfying business? Is satisfying what you want, or do you want something amazing? Do you want something that's constantly growing, shifting, and changing? Something that is magnetic!
This is what can happen when you learn how to heal your second chakra. This is what can happen when you learn how to step into your feminine energy.
Some of the magical things that happen as you start to step into your feminine energy are: your intuition strengthens, your life becomes more playful. All of a sudden you're not just taking a five minutes shower. You're turning on the music, and you're dancing in the shower!
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